From Worry to Wonder

Simple Habits for an Abundance Mindset Have you ever felt stuck in that scarcity loop, where all you can think about is what you don’t have? You know what I am talking about. For me it hits after doom scrolling and wistfully and voyeuristically taking in what other people are doing on the interwebs. And you know that I know that they are only showing a snapshot but I still find myself wondering what I am doing wrong. You’re not alone. Our minds can be our biggest obstacle, constantly pointing out what’s missing instead of celebrating what we already have. But there’s another way to think that frees you from the prison of doom—the abundance mindset. It works. I tried it and it made all the difference. And lately life has been giving me many opportunities to practice. It’s all about appreciating the small things. The first sip of my ginger lemon tea in the morning, the feel of the sun on my skin as I water the plants, or being able to lounge in bed on Saturday mornings. Those simple joys make my whole day brighter. That’s the power of an abundance mindset. It’s more than positive thinking; it’s a lifestyle change that has transformed my entire world. Imagine moving through life knowing that there’s enough for everyone, including you. That’s what an abundance mindset is all about. It’s not just about money or material things—it’s about how you view the world and your place in it. When you adopt an abundance mindset, it changes the way you see opportunities, set goals, and handle challenges. Abundance vs. Scarcity: What’s the Difference? An abundance mindset says, “There’s always more where that came from,” while a scarcity mindset whispers, “There’s never enough.” People who embrace abundance see endless possibilities and know that success isn’t a pie where someone else’s slice makes theirs smaller. They celebrate others and believe that there’s room for everyone to win. But if you’re in that scarcity mindset? Whew, it can make you feel like you’re constantly in competition or that you’re going to run out of what you need. That kind of thinking leads to decisions made out of fear—whether it’s in relationships, your career, or even with yourself. Sometimes our scarcity mindset are leftovers from traumatic experiences, so don’t beat up on yourself. Decide what you can commit to changing and let’s make it happen. Why Cultivate an Abundance Mindset? When you embrace an abundance mindset, it doesn’t just change your thoughts—it transforms your life. Here are some of the benefits: Daily Habits to Build Your Abundance Mindset Of course you can’t just flip a switch to go from scarcity to abundance—it takes time and small, daily changes. But do not fret, I’ve got you covered. Here are some practical habits to get you started. 1. Gratitude Journaling Start your day by writing down three things you’re grateful for. It could be something as simple as the warmth of your morning sun or a kind word from a loved one. This habit is like training your brain to notice abundance, and over time, you’ll start to see more of it. As I have share before I am not a journaler but I know that it can be a really valuable tool. I prefer to wake up joyfully. I focus the first few moments of my day on things I am grateful for. I say my prayers when I wake up and say thank you for another wake up. I say good morning to Rodney and then I start humming a song that makes me happy. By the time it’s time to water the plants I start naming the things I am grateful for and if its sunny I spend a few minutes letting it warm my skin. That makes for a morning that sets me up for success and starts my day with joy. 2. Setting and Achieving Goals Goals are your road map to an abundant life. But don’t just set any goals—set ones that align with what really matters to you. So many of us are recovering people pleasers. It is important to take a moment to make sure that the goals we set are aligned to our purpose. When you have the aligned goals, break them down into smaller steps and tasks. Every time you complete one of the steps, celebrate because this creates momentum and reminds you that your goals are within reach. I am lucky to have Carol in my orbit who does the breaking down of the tasks for me because my brain is always thinking about multiple things at a time. If your brain is like mine there are all kinds of apps and software that can help you. The point of breaking it down is to make it achievable so that it goes from being a dream to being a goal. 3. Keep Learning Learning something new keeps your mind open and engaged with the world. Whether it’s reading a book, watching a documentary, or picking up a new hobby, continuous learning shows you that there’s always more to explore. Not to mention that it is good for your brain. Lately I have been learning a lot about gardening. I have killed some, but I have grown more than I killed. I am not trying to become a master gardener, I am just trying to learn more about nurturing and caring for plants that make my space more beautiful. I am also learning a ton about launching a new business, and building a brand. The joy for me is in the learning and I have noticed that keeping my focus on learning has changed the way that I approach challenges. I come in curious as opposed to judgmental and that is a huge shift for me. 4. Surround Yourself with Positive People We become like the people we spend time with, so make sure you’re around people who uplift and inspire you. Positive vibes are contagious,

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